Letting go is the opposite of desire or attachment. Think of it as generosity in the highest sense. - Henepola Gunaratana
Los Angeles area Latinos are increasingly turning toward Buddhism as their religion of choice.
“What many people like about Buddhism is that we don’t have a lot of rules about how you should live your life,” said the Rev. Jon Turner, a minister at the Orange County Buddhis Church. (Japanese immigrants decided to us the word "church" for their sangha in order to fit in more seamlessly into American culture) “We don’t have a lot that’s black and white. So if you don’t fit the mold in Christianity, where do you go? A lot of times they’ll come to Buddhism as an alternative.” This was the case for Hector Ortiz, who grew up Baptist, but as a gay man, said that he struggled with his church’s teachings on sexuality. Buddhism seemed like a better fit. “For me, spiritually, what makes sense is that I’m responsible for my own actions and how I interpret the world, [as] opposed to looking to others for happiness or seeking it outward,” Ortiz said. “I was drawn to the personal responsibility, seeking happiness inward and the acceptance. It felt like a place I was arriving home to, spiritually.” (source:www.latimes.com) Bruce Crager, a thirty-five-year trucking veteran, advises tolerance and understanding of other drivers’ predicaments:
People sometimes get confused when they’re driving, and I think we have to be forgiving of them. And it doesn’t hurt to get out of their way. Old people pulling campers, for instance: They’re likely to make mistakes, and I try to give them a wide berth. I’m a firm believer that what comes around goes around. If you do something bad to somebody, like intentionally cutting them off, somewhere down the road, someone will do the same to you. By the same token, you give a driver a break, maybe give him a hole to slip back into when they need it, and later on, when you need a hole to get out of a dangerous situation, someone will make it for you. Selfish acts bring the fruits of selfishness: disrupted relationships, loneliness, frustration, depression, despair. Generous work brings the fruits of giving: loyal friends, security, faith in human goodness, and the increasing capacity to give more. - Eknath Easwaran
More and more people are abandoning social media sites, especially Facebook, due to the preponderance of politically motivated hate speech and rage. With that in mind, Kokuj -ji, a Buddhist temple in Japan’s Niigata Prefecture, dedicated its traditional Goma fire ceremony in October to purifying the negativity energy and hatred that is often stirred up during online interactions. The sacred cleansing fire ritual was held as part of Kokujo-ji’s traditional Goma fire ceremony, conducted to neutralize the harmful negative energies of human desires and emotions.
In the Goma ceremony, fire symbolizes the wisdom of the Buddha and the wooden sticks or tablets used as fuel represent human desires (the root of suffering). In this ritual the Buddha burns away the root of suffering for the participants. The Goma ceremony is believed to have evolved from the Vedic Agnicayana ritual and can be performed for the benefit of individuals, a specific group or community, or for all sentient beings. The consecrated fire is viewed as having a powerful spiritual and psychological cleansing effect. The ritual is performed to destroy negative energies, thoughts, and desires In different parts of the planet there is a push - perhaps a rush - to strip women and men of cultural and religious symbols which leaves on wondering why anyone feels this is necessary. We live in a multicultural, inter-dependent world. so what's the issue and why this issue.
With that question in mind, I appreciated these insights from a Canadian writer V. R. Sasson: "Throughout the religious world, the question of what one wears (or does not wear) on one’s head reflects who one is. It is how people identify themselves religiously. The head is the highest point of the body, the part we share with the sky and that reaches for the stars. In some communities, it is covered as an expression of humility. In others, it is uncovered to demonstrate communalism. In Buddhism, it is shaved to manifest separation from worldly life, but Hindu renunciants grow their hair into dreadlocks to say the same thing. Some Jain monastics will literally pluck individual hairs from their head. How a person wears their hair and whether they cover it or not speaks volumes. The fact that secular culture permits almost any hairstyle at this point (colored, shaved, or even having the skull tattooed) is a statement too: a declaration that seculars are not bound by limitation—gendered, religious, or otherwise. Every one of us speaks to our society with our hairstyles, head coverings, or lack thereof. I don’t mean to simplify these issues, but alarm bells are ringing. History has been down this road before. We have tried to make a diverse community unified (communist China immediately comes to mind) just as we have tried to strip outsiders of their differences. We have forced monks to disrobe (Tibet) and Muslims to shave their beards (Turkey). We have tried repeatedly to make our communities ring with one voice and it never works." (read the full article here: www.buddhistdoor.net) A person whose mind is fee from negative thinking spreads a life-giving influence in much the same that a tree gives oxygen. - Eknath Easwaran
As Japan prospered, the Japanese began consuming more and more meat. (Historically the wealthy are unhealthy.) This has had a negative impact upon longevity among Okinawans who were once one of the revered centenarian cultures in which people regularly lived past 100.
In the last 20 years, their longevity rates have dramatically decreased as their diet shifted from largely plant based to greater consumption of flesh foods. Sadly, the Okinawan people are no longer known for their longevity. Several years ago, P. H. Wright, a professor at the University of North Dakota, authored a professional paper in which he outlined the qualities for real friendship. If you have a friendship which feels 'off', look over this list of 8 qualities. It's likely that several of them are absent in the friendship which has weakened it significantly.
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