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HOW A MEDITATION TEACHER CAN HELP YOU DEVELOP A STRONG MEDITATION PRACTICE

4/24/2019

 
I usually recommend that people learn a traditional meditation practice from a qualified instructor. That way, you know exactly what to do at any point in meditation and with any experience that comes along. Often when people try to learn on their own or from a book, they learn incorrectly and soon give up in frustration because they aren’t experiencing the expected benefits.  -  Deepak Chopra

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

4/24/2019

 
When you feel diligent and enthusiastic you meditate, and when you feel lazy you meditate. — Ajahn Chah

(My comment:  It doesn't matter how you feel when it comes to meditate; just sit)

"WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR IDEALS?"

4/23/2019

 
In the past several years, America has embraced values that cannot create a sustainable society and world. Currently, we organize our activities around beliefs that are inherently life-destroying. We believe that growth can be endless, that competition creates healthy relationships, that consumption need have no limits, that meaning is found in things, that aggression brings peace. Societies that use these values end up, as do all voracious predators in nature, dead.

I know that most Americans would be shocked at this list of national values, but I see them clearly in our behaviors and the choices we make. I also know that this is not who we want to be. So how did we get here? What happened to our ideals of life, liberty, democracy, independence, imagination?  - Margaret Wheatley

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

4/23/2019

 
Diseases of the mind require medicines for the mind - meditation, mindfulness, proper breathing. - Victor M. Parachin

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

4/22/2019

 
No one’s spiritual journey is shaped by a cookie cutter. - Deepak Chopra

PRACTICE POSITIVE THINKING ABOUT YOUR BODY ADVISES DEEPAK CHOPRA

4/21/2019

 
What you experience as “reality,” including your physical body and aging, is shaped by your habits  of perception. While most people are conditioned to see the body as a static,
biological machine, you can begin to view it as a field of energy, transformation,
and intelligence that is constantly renewing itself.

Begin to notice both your internal dialogue and how you speak about your body
and aging. If you find yourself saying things like, “I’m hitting the age where I’ll need
reading glasses,” “I’m too old to try yoga (or some other activity),” “I inherited my
dad’s bad back,” or other such statements, make a conscious choice to shift your
perspective and change what you tell yourself about your body and age.

Keep in mind that your cells are eavesdropping on what you say, so unless you
want to have your father’s bad back or anything else that “runs in the family,” don’t
nurture that seed of intention in your awareness.  - Seven Steps To Radical Wellbeing by Deepak Chopra

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

4/21/2019

 
To perceive the ultimate truth we must silence the mind through meditation. For meditation to be effective we must develop the power of attention. - David Frawley

BUDDHIST TEACHINGS APPEAR IN EARLY AA PAMPHLET

4/20/2019

 
In the 1940s - just a few years after the founding of AA -  Buddhism found its way into AA literature. It came in a pamphlet commissioned by AA founder Dr. Bob and it was titled  Spiritual Milestones in Alcoholics Anonymous: “Consider the eight-part program laid down in Buddhism: Right view, right aim, right speech, right action, right living, right effort, right mindedness, and right contemplation. The Buddhist philosophy, as exemplified by these eight points, could be literally adopted by AA as a substitute or an addition to the Twelve Steps. Generosity, universal love, and welfare of other rather than consideration of self are basic to Buddhism.” 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

4/20/2019

 
Man’s purpose is complete freedom from unhappiness. - Swami Sri Yukteswar

AA AND THE TWELVE STEPS WORK FORĀ  BUDDHISTS

4/19/2019

 
I've been aware of the critique of AA which comes from Westerners who've adopted a Buddhist path.  Their criticism is that AA is too "Christian" for non-theistic Buddhists.  I tended to agree with that viewpoint until someone close to me entered a twelve step program.  To support that person I've attended some of their public AA meetings and was truly impressed by the AA philosophy and the 12 step program.  It's definitely not "Christian" and simply references a higher power of one's personal understanding.  This can easily be the "higher self" or one's Buddha nature.

Recently I read an excellent article which links AA and Buddhism in a very compelling way.  The piece is written by Bill K. He gained sobriety and has remained sober for 32 years because of AA.  A decade later he embraced Zen Buddhism (he is especially informed by Zen Koan study) and has found the two traditions to be mutually supportive. Here are some insights from Bill K:
  • Millions have gained their sobriety over that past 84 years because of AA so the model and program deserves respect;
  • Case 87 in the collection of Zen koans known as the Blue Cliff Record teaches that “the whole world is medicine.”  AA is a "medicine" which has been available for more than 8 decades.
  • Sometimes Buddhism isn't enough to combat addiction.  Bill K rightly notes that it  "has been widely reported that two influential Buddhist teachers in North America, Taizan Maezumi Roshi (Zen) and Chogyam Trungpa (Vajrayana), both died as a result of alcoholism. Oh, if only it could be so easy—become a Buddhist and get sober. But it doesn’t work that way. Alcoholism is a cunning and baffling disease." 
  • If one's Buddhism isn't helping with the addiction, why not introduce a different "medicine"?  There are many paths to recovery not just one.  This is recognized in Alcoholics Anonymous (fondly called the Big Book) states: “Upon therapy for the alcoholic himself, we surely have no monopoly.”
  • Refuge Recovery has positioned itself as  the Buddhist alternative but has done so with an expensive advertising campaign purchasing full page ads in prominent Buddhist magazines.  Bill K notes:  "AA is at a disadvantage here—because of its Twelve Traditions, it can’t take out advertising."  AA philosophy is growth by attraction, not promotion.  There is something humble and compelling about this approach.
(article source:  www.buddhistdoor.com)

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    Vedic educator, yoga instructor, Buddhist meditation teacher and author of a dozen books. Buy his books at amazon or your local bookstore. Sadly, Victor passed away in August 2025, but his blog continues. Janet Parachin, his partner of 45 years, shares quotes from his books and articles each week. 

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